This series, Selling Your Home Made Easy, is a step-by-step guide to help you navigate everything from choosing the right agent to reaching the settlement table with confidence.
Selling a home is an emotional experience for many of us. Your home has been part of your story and holds memories. But when it’s time to sell, it also becomes a business transaction that needs to be approached with a clear head.
That’s where strong negotiation strategy comes into play. You want to walk away with a deal that supports your goals while keeping the process as smooth and low-stress as possible. Remember, how you handle this stage can affect your ability to move forward to your next chapter.
And keep in mind, both you and the buyer want the same outcome, a successful closing. So rather than approaching this as a win-or-lose scenario, it’s best to stay focused on common ground while standing firm on what matters most to you.

Here are a few practical tips that can make a big difference when it’s time to negotiate:
1. Understand the buyer’s motivation and timeline.
Try to find out what is driving the buyer’s decision to purchase. Are they relocating for work? Do they need to be settled before a new school year starts? If they also need to sell a home, that could delay the process. On the other hand, a buyer with a pressing need may be motivated to act quickly and reasonably. The more you understand their timing, the better you can respond.
2. Keep the conversation going.
Always respond to an offer. Even if it’s lower than expected, a counteroffer keeps the door open. The longer both parties stay engaged, the more likely a deal will come together. If you receive more than one offer, be transparent. Letting buyers know there is competition often leads to stronger terms and a better overall outcome.
3. Be realistic about contingencies.
Contingencies are part of most deals. Whether it’s a home inspection or financing, buyers often need some reassurance before moving forward. If issues come up during the inspection, be open to discussion. You can negotiate a price adjustment, agree to repairs, or offer closing cost credits. However, be cautious with contingencies that carry more risk, such as a buyer needing to sell another home or having uncertain financing. These situations require extra evaluation.
4. Use smart concessions to get what you want.
Sometimes, small concessions can move a deal across the finish line. You might offer flexibility on the move-out date, leave behind an appliance the buyer loves, or help with a portion of closing costs. These gestures can keep things positive and make buyers feel good about the deal, while still protecting your bottom line.
I genuinely enjoy the negotiation process and see it as a collaboration, not a battle. My approach has always been about getting my sellers what they want while helping buyers feel good about their purchase. That’s how deals get done quickly and successfully.
With 20+ years of experience negotiating with a win-win mindset, I’ve helped clients reach outcomes that work for them, not just on paper, but emotionally and financially too.
If you’re thinking of selling, let’s start planning now. Reach out a few months before you’re ready to list and we can walk through the process together. From pricing to preparation to offer review, I’ll guide you every step of the way so that your future negotiations go smoothly and work in your favor.
Next week, we’ll dive into What’s an Appraisal and Why Does It Matter? This is one of the most important steps once your home goes under contract. A low appraisal can stall or derail a deal, so it’s worth understanding how it works and what to expect.
As always, I’m here as your go-to resource for all things real estate.
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Hi! I'm Gretchen Schmidt. I help busy professionals in the Pacific NW. I can remove the overwhelm of getting your house ready to sell, and remove the worry that you'll miss out on your dream home. Thank you for being here and I hope to help you get started finding your next home.
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